What you need to know about anal sex
Anal sex is really underrated, and probably some of what is being talked about the least when it comes to sex. It is most often associated with porn stars and is therefore made into something that is too violent.
But it is for everyone, and by nature it is designed to be able to give you the most wonderful life-changing orgasms.
By working with a butt plug, you can learn once and for all to debunk your A-hole and re-establish it as a living, beautiful and sacred part of your body.
We all have one thing, so why not just embrace it for all it does.
First of all let’s just celebrate it…
Hooray for the anus to help us excrete waste products.
Hooray for the anus to be able to provide a safe support and base in our body.
Hooray for the anus to be able to give the most cosmic out-of-body orgasms.
Anus – a magical portal!
It is absolutely wild how big orgasms one can get by stimulating the anus. It can even be full body orgasmic – galactic!
There are so many nerve endings at the opening and inside the anus that are closely connected to the G-spot and clitoris. So when you stimulate your anus, you also stimulate the rest of your sexual erogenous points.
And then it’s close to the coccyx, midbrain and sacrum, which is the root of our body and from there, where the sexual energy, your primal energy flows up along the spine up to the head all the way out in a full body orgasm….
And it feels completely like floating out to the cosmos and home again. As if time stands still and you are fully in the now while being flooded with ecstatic pleasure.
It may feel forbidden, shameful, disgusting and embarrassing to read about anal sex and even to say the word out loud. If you think so, then it’s perfectly okay, because the anus is also most often the center of toilet visits and can be seen as a dirty place.
But the anus is not just a hole where we excrete waste products from, but it is a magical portal!
By getting to know your A-hole, you can open it up to the most enjoyable, joyful and orgasmic experiences of your life.
Anus are truly the next level on the pleasure scale – and they are truly life-changing!
The anus and the root chakra
The anus is part of your root chakra, and by having anal sex you therefore connect to Mother Earth, your roots and your primal nature.
In media and porn, you tend to see anal sex as something kinky and raw, but from your own experience, good anal sex is one of the most intimate and beautiful. It’s not kinky, but it’s the most intimate and romantic sex you can have with your lover. It takes security and surrender to open up to.
The anus is the first place we tense up if we feel scared, anxious and insecure. If we are not safe, have money problems or housing insecurity, then we are tensing up there. We tense up in buttocks. We become a tight ass or take the tail between the legs. We are closing down this beautiful place.
And if you have experienced having anal sex way too soon, then your anus will also tense up and it will feel painful and uncomfortable. So go ahead quietly!
So always start by massaging the anus opening in circles with your fingers. From there, you will work your way up to using a small or medium butt plug, and when you are ready your partner’s penis or a dildo.
Glas butt plugs
Working with a butt plug is very powerful and can help you on your own to get to know your A-hole. It can be used both as a massage tool to relax the root of the body and also for self-enjoyment. Using a butt plug is also a perfect first step to explore anal play before doing so with a partner.
At Goddess Temple you can get butt plugs of both crystal and glass.
Our Rose Butt Plug and Flower Butt Plug is made of safe borosilicate glass and is hygienic to use. They both have a pink rose as a base, and make them connect to something very feminine and sacred.
Using such a beautiful tool for anal play means that you completely reprogram the way you go to your anus. From perhaps seeing it as a dirty, taboo area to being a place where something beautiful can flourish.
All the shame and taboo around butt-sex will disappear because these glass butt plugs do not look very intimidating! They have a sweet and innocent look, which will make anyone relax more… in the buttocks region.
Crystal butt plugs
At Goddess Temple we also have butt plugs of crystal, or rather black obsidian from Mexico.
Black obsidian is really good to use as a butt plug because it is safe and easy to clean, and then its energy corresponds to the root chakra and properties such as safety, stability, grounding – all of which are necessary to be able to fully surrender to that anal pleasure.
Working with a Black Obsidian Butt Plug is very powerful because this black crystal goes in and heals during trauma and releases anxiety and insecurity and works with our shadow sides.
It provides grounding and protection and works on the most animalistic primal level, and that’s what one needs to open up to its orgasmic potential.
How to use a butt plug
So what you are doing is using the butt plug as part of your self-indulgence practice or with your partner or as a way to massage and de-arm your anus. The important thing about a butt plug is that it must have a base that prevents it from disappearing into you.
You hold on to the bottom and massage and stimulate the opening of the anus. Not only do you have to push it in, but you have to stimulate the opening while you breathe deeply, relax and at the same time stimulate the clitoris or your vagina with another goddess tool.
It is important that you do not just push it in, but that you actually get so turned on and wet that it can easily slip in. So it’s good to warm up the body completely and be really turned on before.
Butt plug and lube
The good thing about using a butt plug is also that you can experience getting extremely wet because it indirectly stimulates the A-point of the vagina, which sits between the G-point and the cervix. So you really do not need to use lube at all !!!
Yes, you read that right!
Of course, it can be good to use some coconut oil or your favorite lube so you do not create unnecessary tears in the anus. But really, you should preferably be naturally dripping wet before inserting anything into your anus (and as well into the vagina).
You will not only rely solely on lube because your vaginal wetness will tell you how aroused you are and you should like to be absolutely wildly aroused before it is enjoyable to invite the butt plug in. And you do not get wet in the anus, but you get wet from the vagina, and your natural fluids will thus slide down to the anus and can help to give you some lubrication.
So it is important to know that you should only insert the butt plug when you are ready, wet and feeling pleasure from it. If it hurts and does not feel nice, do not go ahead and only stimulate the opening until you feel like it.
And in fact, you do not need to insert the butt plug completely at all, because the opening itself can feel orgasmic to stimulate. And that just to introduce the butt blug a little cm. in, can feel completely orgasmic and send sexual energy up the spine to the Universe.
Butt plug with other goddess tools
Once you have become familiar with your butt plug, you can move on to using it with another goddess tool, e.g. The Magic Squirter or Octopussy.
Butt plug with partner
When it feels nice, you can use it with a partner. So you just slide the butt plug in slowly. When it feels nice, then you can have sex vaginally with your partner in different positions, e.g. on all fours, on your back, or how you just like it. When you lie on your back, the butt plug will push deeper and it can feel really delicious.
You will notice that the butt plug stimulates the prostate, which is especially wildly delicious for men to stimulate, as it is larger in them. So the goddess temple butt plugs can also be used by men.
Using butt plug with your partner can be a step on the road to trying anal sex. Anal sex is such an intimate and beautiful experience. To have a good experience, one must be able to fully surrender to him and it must go very slowly. It’s not just about in-and-out anal sex because it can be too violent. Instead, it is about walking gently and slowly until one is dripping wet and an open heart to just merge into ecstatic surrender and cosmic pleasure.
Butt plug and hygiene
You need to make sure that you wash your butt plug thoroughly before and after use. Before using your butt plug or having anal sex, remember to go to the toilet and wash yourself thoroughly before.
Extra tips and tricks
If you feel tense and unable to relax, then it may be an idea to massage buttocks, lower back, sacrum, coccyx and perineum with some coconut oil as a foreplay.
If you have a lot of untapped energy sitting at the root of your body, it can be good to dance, make noises and roll with your hips and make stretches for the inner thighs and hips before using the butt plug.
Using breath and sounding while using your butt plug or having anal sex is extra juicy as it awakens your sexual energy and will help release trauma stored in the anus and perineum as well as make the energy move up and out in the body.
You can also use your butt plug elsewhere on the body as a massage tool.
If you have any questions about which butt plug to choose and how to use it, finally write through the contact form.
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